Deciphering A Woman’s Language, Part 2
In the first part of this article, I showed you what “Girl Speak” was, and how I avoided falling into it’s trap. In this part, I’ll teach you to avoid that trap too.
Now, if I had taken the”Girl Speak” from part 1 literally, I’d have never gotten past the initial meet.
But I know the key to by-passing the most common “Girl Speak” objections.
You know the ones…
“I only like guys with great bodies.”
“A guy who wants to take me out needs to have a nice car.”
“I want a tall man.”
“I want a guy my own age.”
“I have a boyfriend.”
“I’m not looking for a serious relationship.”
Blah, blah, blah.
So how do I do it? Well, its fairly simple actually…
Instead of changing her mind, work on changing how she FEELS.
If some woman goes on about some certain thing she says is attractive, ignore the detail she is claiming is attractive. The truth is, she’s not saying what is really attracting her.
Not at all.
When a girl tells you something like “I like to date tall guys,” she’s not telling you she’s attracted to guys who are tall.
She’s telling you she’s attracted to the way tall guys make her FEEL.
Normally, if you ask a girl why she likes tall guys, she will share with you that maybe she “feels safer” with tall men.
So in that case, she’s looking to feel secure with the guy she’s dating.
Guess what? You don’t have to be tall to make a woman FEEL secure! you just need to know how to trigger that emotion inside her.
So let’s say you want to get a woman attracted to you - no matter what you look like.
Do you know how to make a woman feel that kind of attraction?
The key is making her feel FUN when she’s around you. If you can make a woman feel fun, chances are she’ll feel attracted.
Why?
Because attraction is all about feeling good! And if you can create some good old fashioned emotional tension in there - guess what?
She’s going to be attracted to you!
And if you have her attracted to you, the rest is a cakewalk!